Why this is here
Somebody asks what made him choose this, and he laughs, because he’s spent the whole afternoon arguing that nobody chooses anything. Then he answers anyway, and the answer is the reason we can put a Sikh teacher on a Christian-rooted site without flinching. He describes what he calls being a “Sunday Sikh” — the prayers, the history, the customs, and no one ever mentioning meditation, self-reflection, or connection to the divine. He’s careful not to make it an accusation against his parents; it’s what they were handed. Nothing shifted until his early twenties, when one mentor opened a door, and he discovered that the tradition he thought he knew completely contained something he had never heard. What he does with that is the part worth copying: he says please don’t listen to me, I don’t really know what I’m talking about — go read it yourself, practice it, see whether it works in your life. He’ll say elsewhere in the same session that he doesn’t need you to convert to anything, and that if some other teacher explains it better in language you understand, go there. That’s not modesty as a technique. That’s a man who’d rather you be changed than be his.
What wisdom you can gather
Growing up inside a tradition is not the same as having received it. That’s true of a gurdwara and it’s true of every church any of us grew up in — you can know all the customs and have never once been told the thing at the center. If that describes you, the honest move isn’t to leave. It’s to go find out what your own tradition actually says, from the sources, for yourself.
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